Now and Then: Games of Today and Yesterday

 
When I was a young child, it seemed my life was a game.  Or at least I spent most of my time playing games! I was never the first kid on the block to have the cool new toy. I had a few Barbie dolls, but Ronni had the Barbie townhouse and Amy had the Barbie pool. By the time I got around to buying a Cabbage Patch Kid, the waiting list was so long that when Toys "R" Us called over a year later and said my doll had arrived, I was in sixth grade and too old to play with it. (I did anyway.) My family didn't have Atari or Intellivision. (We didn't even have premiere television channels!) Thankfully, I had friends with better playrooms than my own because I never felt all that deprived.  I owned some less "hip" games like the board game Life, which I loved! And I spent hours trying to solve the Rubik's Cube, Pyraminx and Rubik's Snake puzzles.  I was incredibly excited to receive the electronic games "Maniac" and Simon (and Super Simon) for my 10th birthday.  I could waste away a Saturday playing card games like War, Gin Rummy, Spit and Crazy Eights. 

When my Grandma Molly visited, we played family games like UNO and Scrabble. The kids in the neighborhood and I played 21, waging our favorite stationary and stickers (my faves included the "puffy" ones and Hello Kitty). My sister and I played Jacks and Chinese Jacks. My sister was a pro! And then there were outdoor games like Statues, Red Light/Green Light, Mother May I, TV Tag, Hopscotch, SPUD, horse, tetherball, running bases and a game naively named by me and a friend as Blue Balls because, well, the sports ball we bought at the grocery store was blue. *blush* My sister and I would also pretend we were characters in popular television shows like The Facts of Life. She was always Blair, of course.

These were the games of my childhood, but as I matured, so did the games I played.  The video arcade became a popular hangout when I was in junior high and Pac Man, Space Invaders and Frogger were among my favorites. Most of high school is a blur for me, and I think I spent more time daydreaming about whatever guy I was crushing than playing games but once I got to college, games were all the rage again.  Drinking games, that is!  Asshole, Up The River, Down the River, Three Man, Beer Pong, The Name Game, Bullshit, Sixes (I can go on and on and on...)  But not all of our games involved drinking.  For instance, during my freshman year, the girls in my dorm and I became fascinated with my roommate's Ouija Board until we freaked out after getting in touch with a "dark" spirit.  
Now that I am a mature (cough) adult, I don't play as many games as I used to.  It's difficult to balance games with working a full-time job, writing and promoting my books, eating, exercising, sleeping, spending time with friends, family and the boyfriend and just general life maintenance, like remembering to replenish the toilet paper.  But I know there are some very popular games out there, like the Nintendo Wii series and Xbox.  As with Atari and Intellivision, I'm pretty certain if I was a kid today, I would not own either of those games and would have to rely on my friends. If I asked nicely (and often) enough, I might have been able to persuade my mom to buy me a smart phone so I could at least play such games as Angry Birds or Words with Friends. 

What about you?  Did you play any of the games I mentioned above?  What are your favorite games of today and yesterday?  

Meredith Schorr lives in New York City and works as a trademark paralegal at a prestigious law firm. In addition to writing humorous women's fiction novels, her passions include running, spending time with friends and family and rooting for the New York Yankees. Meredith is a member of Romance Writers of America and Chick Lit Writers of The World. Just Friends with Benefits is her first novel. For more information, please visit www.meredithschorr.com.

Book Club Discussion: Easily Amused

Please take a look at the discussion questions below and Nancy's responses, then comment with your own responses to some or all of the questions. Also, please include the number of the question(s) with your response(s) so we can all keep track of what is being discussed. Feel free to add any other comments you have that are not prompted by the questions. Thank you for reading Easily Amused by Karen McQuestion and participating in our discussion!
 
1. What is your perception of Lola?
Lola seems to be miserable when the book begins, but not understandably so. She is a complainer, annoyed because her friend, Piper, is always taking care of her young son, and frustrated that because she made nasty comments about her friend Hubert’s girlfriend, he doesn’t speak to her much anymore. Lola is selfish and not that likable. She flips out when her younger sister, Mindy, reveals that her wedding will be on Lola’s thirtieth birthday and she wants to have a cake and sing, “Happy Birthday,” to Lola at the reception. Lola is also bothered when Hubert suddenly shows up at her house after a fight with his girlfriend and wants to stay there for a while. I didn’t really get why Lola was so upset with everything going on around her because it didn’t seem that bad. Also, Lola tends to avoid social situations and really dislikes her overly involved neighbors. 

2. Were you rooting for Lola to end up with Ryan or Hubert?
Ryan seemed like he was hiding something from the start. Hubert was an okay character. I knew early on who Lola would end up with, but I wasn’t too excited to see how it all worked out. I didn’t connect with these characters very much. 

3. Describe the friendship between Lola and Piper.
Since Lola is relatively non-confrontational, she bottled up a lot of the negative feelings she had toward Piper and just let everything go, but she was clearly frustrated with her. Piper was a pretty good friend to Lola, though, and seemed to genuinely care about her. She was willing to help Lola with whatever she needed, a great quality to have in a friend. 

4. Describe the relationship between Lola and her sister, Mindy.
Strained would be the best word to describe Lola’s and Mindy’s relationship. Mindy is condescending and rude to Lola, and Lola understandably doesn’t want to be with Mindy much, especially when it comes to planning Mindy’s wedding. But, Lola’s lack of involvement and lack of interest are not good either. I kept hoping that Mindy would make an effort to be nicer and that Lola would just make some sort of an effort. 

5. Overall, would you recommend this novel to others? Why or why not?
Probably not. It wasn’t for me, but other people may enjoy it. I’m not opposed to reading something else from Karen McQuestion, though. Each novel is different, so I might like another one of her books better. 

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Celebrity Crush: Waxing Rhapsodic About Johnny Depp


I just got back from seeing the new Tim Burton-directed film, Dark Shadows.  As I'm sure anyone who doesn't live under a rock knows, the star of the film is Burton's longtime collaborator Johnny Depp.  To say that Depp gives a fascinating, hilarious, and hauntingly poignant performance as "cursed" vampire Barnabas Collins will come as no surprise to anyone who's a fan of his brilliant and eclectic body of work.
 
I've been watching Johnny on screens both small and large since he first entered the public's consciousness in a TV show called 21 Jump Streetback in the late '80s.  What never ceases to amaze me about the man's performances over the years is how chameleonic he is.  He always disappears into his characters, creating a totally unique persona through changes in his voice, appearance, and mannerisms, and even after almost three decades in the acting business, he still manages to surprise me in every role he undertakes. 

Although it's hard for me to limit a list of my favorite Johnny Depp films to just five as I believe there's something to recommend in all of his movies (The Tourist never happened, say it with me), I will endeavor to try.
 
Don Juan DeMarco(1994) - This gem of a film was made during the Early Johnny Years.  In it, Johnny plays a delusional young man who believes that he is Don Juan, the world's greatest lover (Not a big stretch of the imagination, is it?)  DeMarco is sent to a mental institution to be observed and treated by a psychiatrist (Marlon Brando).  Faux Juan tells Dr. Mickler his life story (including his escapades with a variety of gorgeous women and his finding of true love) and in the process, the doctor is inspired to breathe some much-needed romance back into his own marriage.  Johnny is impossibly charming and appealing in this role and it's a pleasure to see him acting opposite film legend Marlon Brando with whom he had a great rapport (the two of them became great friends after working together).

Sleepy Hollow (1999) - This is probably the most overlooked of the Burton/Depp films (perhaps because it's a bit darker and more adult-skewing than their other projects?), but I really loved how gothic and creepy it was (Tim Burton is a master at creating atmosphere in films).  Johnny's Ichabod Crane, a late 18th century New York City police constable, is sent to Sleepy Hollow to investigate a series of brutal murders in which the victims were decapitated.  He attempts to do this with newfangled scientific methods (Finger-printing! Autopsies!) that perplex the locals.  There are lots of humorous moments in the film as Ichabod, despite his best intentions, is a bit of a wuss, and he shrieks or faints every time he encounters something gruesome.  The slow-burn romance between the constable and feisty rich girl Katrina Van Tassle (Christina Ricci) is one of my favorites in a Depp film.

Secret Window(2004) - Maybe it's because I'm a writer that I find the character of Mort Rainey so compelling?  The poor guy is all alone in a secluded cabin following the break-up of his marriage, and he's suffering from a major case of writer's block when he starts being harassed by a mysterious man named Shooter (a very unnerving John Turturro) who accuses him of plagiarism.  Murder and mayhem ensue as Mort tries to placate the increasingly volatile Shooter.  Suspense isn't a genre one usually associates with the oft-quirky Depp, but I thought he gave an incredible performance as Mort, a regular guy who finds himself in a situation that quickly spirals out of control.

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (2005) - This is one of those movies that I have to stop and watch every time I come across it while channel-surfing.  It just never gets old and it always brings a smile to my face.  Tim Burton (yes, him again) serves up a visual feast with all of the colorful, imaginative sets and the amazing costumes designed by Colleen Atwood (those Oompa Loompas were stylin'!)  And Johnny Depp's interpretation of the character created by Roald Dahl, "amazing chocolatier" Willy Wonka, is so delightfully weird (the high-pitched voice, the crazy giggle, his utter disdain for children) that you can't take your eyes off of him.

Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006) - The irreverent, eternally soused Captain Jack Sparrow, in all of his dreadlocked, gold-toothed glory, has become one of the most iconic characters in cinematic history and will probably be the role that Depp is most remembered for generations from now.  The second film in the Piratesseries was my favorite because Captain Jack got to run the gamut from treacherous to self-sacrificing, and it ended with a smooch (Elizabeth might have been tricking Sparrow, but that was still one smokin' hot kiss!) and a cliffhanger (Did the Kraken really kill Jack?).  Neither Pirates 3, nor 4, could match the humor, high stakes, and action-packed intensity of Dead Man's Chest.

I'm excited to see what the future holds for Johnny Depp's career.  No doubt he will continue to put his distinctive stamp on every character he embodies.  I think the role I'm most looking forward to seeing him play is Nick Charles in the upcoming remake of the fun, banter-filled detective film The Thin Man.  The question is:  Who will be his Nora?

I'd love to know what your favorite Depp film is, or who you think would be the perfect actress to match wits with Johnny in The Thin Man.  So, leave a comment below and tell me.

An avid reader and writer, Tracie Banister has been scribbling stories since she was a child, most of them featuring feisty heroines with complicated love lives like her favorite fictional protagonist Scarlett O'Hara. Her Hollywood-themed Chick Lit novel, Blame It on the Fame, was released in January, 2012. She blogs about books and other fun stuff at http://traciebanister.blogspot.com/ and her Twitter handle is @traciebanister.

Author Interview: Meg Donohue

When did you start writing? What do you love about it?
I've been writing for as long as I can remember. I still remember a creative writing class--and the poem I wrote for it--in third grade, so certainly as long as that, though I suspect longer. I love losing myself in a story, whether it's one I am writing or one I am reading. Though I am a fairly social person, I really enjoy and crave the solitary act of writing--the quiet contemplation, the hours that zip by when I'm lost in another place, discovering new people and their desires and dilemmas. 

Why do you write women's fiction?
I write stories populated by smart, funny, ambitious women facing the complexities of their own desires and relationships and choices. Women are fascinating and I love exploring those dynamics.

Describe your typical day/writing routine when you're working on a novel.
Every day of my week is a little bit different because I have two young daughters and their various preschool and nanny schedules are different every day. But I aim to write at least ten pages each week, or one chapter, and I work about four hours per day four days week. I wish I had more time to write, but I also don't want to lose any of the time I spend with my daughters. I guess I really wish for more hours in the day!  

What inspired you to write How to Eat a Cupcake?
I loved the idea of writing about two women who are completely different in almost every way except for their mutual love of cupcakes, and how that love could bring them back together years after having a falling out. I also knew I wanted to write about the dynamic between daughters of a mother and her nanny--two women who grow up almost as sisters until they begin to understand how complicated their relationship really is. And I wanted a mystery element.  

How did you get your novel published? Tell us about your journey to publication.
I am incredibly lucky to have a friend who is an editor -- Jeanette Perez at HarperCollins. She had read some of my writing over the years, so I sent her the summary of How to Eat a Cupcake and the first two chapters, and she ended up making me an offer to publish it. I completed the manuscript about nine months after that and about a year after that the book was published! Even when the deal happens relatively easily, the path to publication is pretty slow.  

What have been the best parts of the publishing process? What have been the most challenging?
I have absolutely loved receiving emails and Tweets and Facebook posts from readers who have enjoyed How to Eat a Cupcake. Those notes really do not get old--they make my day each and every time! It is still so surreal to think of strangers out there reading my book and feeling moved to email me. It means so much to me!

I've learned that it's quite challenging to balance the marketing and publicity aspects of publishing with the writing/creative aspects. Like most (if not all) authors, I want to do everything I can to get my book into as many readers' hands as possible, and those efforts end up taking quite a bit of time. I am still figuring out how to balance that work with the writing I want and need to be doing to move forward with my next book.
 

What are you working on now?
I am writing the final pages of the first draft of my new book, All the Summer Girls. It's about three childhood friends whose lives are unraveling in three separate cities--Philadelphia, New York, and San Francisco. They escape to the beach town of Avalon, New Jersey, where they spent the summers of their youth and end up confronting the secrets about one fateful summer night seven years earlier and how that night has affected their lives since. It will be published by William Morrow in early Summer 2013.
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Thank you for answering our questions, Meg!
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Leading Lady: Melissa McCarthy


When Mike and Molly came on the air a couple of years ago, I fell in love with the show and the adorable brunette, Melissa McCarthy straightaway.  Her character, Molly, is a schoolteacher, who lives with her mother (Swoosie Kurtz) and sister (Katy Mixon), and is engaged to Mike (Billy Gardell).

Every Monday I’ve looked forward to watching the show because of Melissa – and her character, who is a no-nonsense, hardworking and lovable woman!  I started watching the show because the previews seemed funny, and it looked like a cute love story, plus I could even get my husband (boyfriend at the time) to watch.  The writing is wonderful, and I couldn’t imagine the cast being any different!

Melissa’s a very successful woman (she won and Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress!) and she’s funny (watch her on SNL).  Her husband (actor, Ben Falcone) adores her, and they have two young children.  Also, her cousin is Jenny McCarthy – something people can’t believe because they look nothing like.  I disagree though – they are both beautiful!  When she was on Anderson Cooper’s show, you can tell when you see THIS clip what a radiant and confidant woman she is, and that she doesn’t care what people think!

I’m sure many of you have already heard about or read THISarticle that was written by a veryballsy Marie Claire blogger.  After reading it, along with some of the comments that followed, I was instantly in Melissa and Molly’s defense.  Weight has become such an issue in this country, especially for women.  No matter if one is a size 2 or a size 22, many of them don’t have any confidence in themselves because of weight issues.  Ladies, doesn’t weight also make shopping trips less fun?  Have you ever known what size you are, only to see that the shirt you love and want to buy tells you you’re too big?  “But I just bought another shirt the same size!”  Why can’t all designer clothes be the same size?!  This I will never know!  Ugh!  As an overweight woman, Melissa’s confidence is to be commended. 
 
I’m not a size 2 and I’m not a 22 either, but I’m working on being more in shape and living a healthy lifestyle.  My goal is to live happy and healthy and not be on any side of an extreme.  Melissa has inspired me to feel comfortable in my own skin, no matter what size or shape I am.  I encourage you to do the same!

You rock, Melissa McCarthy!

Isabella Louise Anderson is a member of the RWA, and she is the owner of the website Chick Lit Goddess. She resides in Dallas, Texas, where she’s a housewife and mother to 12-year-old cat, Thorndike. A regular contributor at Good Humor Girl, you can learn more about Isabella here.