Can you actually learn something useful from fiction? Or
does the responsibility for imparting knowledge sit solely in the arena of its
non-fiction cousins?
A story’s purpose is to transport you to a different time
and place, to inspire, to entertain, enlighten and challenge. But how do you
feel about a novel where a character jumps off the page, gets in your face and is
determined to teach you a thing or two? Do you dismiss it as the author taking
creative license through the ramblings of an imaginary character with no discernible connection to reality or do you consider it as a potential source of useful advice? I guess what I’m asking is, “Would you take real advice from
a fictional character?”
In the new novel, eloves me, eloves me not, the protagonist, Kayte Wexford, sets out on a journey to find Mr.
Right, venturing into the unfamiliar world of online dating. At the urging of
her happily married best friend Chloe, Kayte agrees to try it. Kayte also learns that her other dear friend Roman considers
himself a bit of an online dating aficionado. He’s used it for years and is
pretty familiar with the ins and outs – what works and what doesn’t. In fact,
he might even be described as a serial online dater. So Roman quickly steps in to
guide and mentor Kayte, providing her with tips, suggestions, and rules from his
personal rule book (Roman’s Rules of Online Dating) to help her maximize her potential for her online
dating success.
When writing this book, I went back and forth as to whether
I would feature Roman and his rules so prominently. I considered whether or not including them
muddied the fiction waters. I did end up leaving them in because I thought that
they added a dimension of authenticity to the story, to Roman as a character, and they provided the reader with some lasting advice that may well stick with
them long after the details of the story are forgotten.
Here is just a small selection of the advice espoused through Roman’s Rules of Online Dating:
- While the words you use to present yourself are important, there is nothing more critical in your profile than the photo.
- Have at least 2-3 chats with someone before meeting them.
- Make sure a friend, colleague, neighbour, someone you trust knows the details of your meeting.
- If you’ve been on the site for a few weeks (or months), you may need to refresh your profile to get noticed.
- Once you’ve met and been on a date or two, or three, you need to be wary of the return to the cyber relationship.
Roman shares 13 rules in total with Kayte
throughout the novel, delivering them one at a time and only as she needs to
learn them. Her experiences then help to contextualise them. You’ll find the
full list and their detailed explanations scattered throughout the novel and in
list form on the book’s website. If you’re curious about trying online dating
or have actually done it, see if they resonate with you.
Regardless of your thoughts on online dating, how do you
feel about an author taking this approach - injecting lessons, tips, and hints
into their fictional stories? What other examples can you point to where you’ve
actually been both entertained and informed by a novel? Would you like to see more
or less of this in novels of the future?
In delivering real advice through a fictional character, is
there a risk of challenging the definition of fiction and having it appear too
real? Or do you feel it adds authenticity and depth to a story that helps to
better engage the reader?
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